Tag Archives: Oral sex

The Real Way to Eat Pussy

It was years ago when I wrote the tutorials about blow jobs and I always intended on doing one on how to eat pussy, but it had been so long, I feared I wouldn’t know what to talk about or how to give appropriate instruction. Continue Reading

Becoming More Comfortable 69ing

For years, I hated 69ing. Too young and too insecure about my body, I was uncomfortable being exposed and having my most private parts on display.

And then I met M.

The visual creature that he is, 69ing was (and still is) one of his favorite ways to pass the time. Oh, I’d comply, straddle myself across over his mouth, but I was always uncomfortable, still too shy to be able to relax with my pussy and ass only inches from his face. Continue Reading


For years I wasn’t a fan of 69ing. The position exposed more of me than I was comfortable showing and at that point in time, I couldn’t imagine the close up of an ass to be attractive, especially my ass. It made me apprehensive, this discomfort, and therefore jittery and awkward, feeling weird in my own skin. Continue Reading

Submissive’s Guide to Giving Head


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Okay, okay. So that was kind of misleading. Well, sort of. See, I did write a Submissive’s Guide to Giving Head over the weekend, but I just didn’t publish it here, I did it over at Eden. It seems I have a minor obsession with this place. Continue Reading

Is Oral Sex, Sex?

Drawing by Francesco Hayez. Español: Dibujo de...

Drawing by Francesco Hayez. Español: Dibujo de Francesco Hayez. 한국어: 남녀가 커닐링구스 또는 구강성교를 구사하고 있다. 프란체스코 아예스의 그림. Nederlands: Facesitting. Polski: Francesco Hayez, rysunek. Русский: Картина Франческо Хайеса. తెలుగు: Cunnilingus, or oral sex performed on a woman. Drawing by Francesco Hayez. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Okay, so I’m not going to sit here and pretend that I’ve been broading over this, because I haven’t.  What I have been doing is proofreading and writing and reading and all sorts of stuff and now, I’m procrastinating.  I’m really good at it.  A pro, truly.  And what better way to procrastinate, then to communicate with you all, my fellow pervs. Continue Reading

Swallow, It’s Good For You: Health Benefits of Semen

Sorry ladies, I know I shouldn’t be encouraging the guys out there to pressure you into swallowing, but I’ve thought about this lately and decided to do a bit of research on the subject, and lo and behold, it turns out that swallowing cum can help you out, in more ways than just getting those new shoes you’ve been eyeing up.  Not only is it full of protein, but it has other benefits as well.  It took some time to sift through the myths and get to the facts of the matter, but I, the dedicated cum-swallower, did and (most) of the information below is from reputable sources.  That being said, one thing I do want to clarify, is even in the university and hospital studies, researchers often seem to make the jump from things being beneficial through absorption of the vaginal walls, to having the same benefits if swallowed.  I, my dear friends, am a human service worker, dealing with addicts and mental health, and have not done real research for a number of years.  Hence, I am not a scientific expert, and I do not know if this is the case.  But regardless, here we go… Continue Reading

Kinky Walrus

A pair of lions copulating in the Maasai Mara,...

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If you use WordPress, you know that it gives you link ideas, typically wiki-type links ranging from trees to socks to fuck or shit, when you are writing a post.  Of course I write about sex, so it’s typically things about “oral sex” or “sexual intercourse.”  Sometimes I use these things, sometimes I don’t.  I seem to use them less and less as time goes on.  But today, I noticed a different symbol under the tag “going down on.”  So I checked it out… Continue Reading

The Perfect Blow Job

Okay, so maybe a chick shouldn’t be writing about the perfect blow job.  It very well might be a job for a man.  But I’m not 100% sure on that.  I

Fellatio with latex gloves - penis outside mouth

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don’t know if M has the slightest clue what I’m doing with my hands, mouth, tongue when I’m going down on him.  So, I’m going to try my best, give you all the advice I can think of…  Because being able to give good head is important.  It’s important for your man.  It’s important for your self-esteem, and it’s important to your own sexuality. Continue Reading