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9 Weeks: Week 1

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As I mentioned earlier this week, I am partaking on an adventure:  9 Weeks to Better Sex.  Week 1 is half way through, so I thought I would share my exercises with you.

Define your terms

  • When I say I want to have sex, I mean I want to…  Fuck you.  Get off.  Play.
  • Sex for me is…  about finding pleasure in each other.  Learning about what pleases one another, and then implementing it into our lives.  Sex is about sharing, giving, taking.  About pushing limits, finding my boundaries, going one step beyond.  One of the greatest things on Earth.
  • When I think about sex, the first thing I think about is…  M’s cock.
  • The last think I think about is…  the way he pounds into me right before he cums.
  • Words I am comfortable using about my own body are…  nipples, pussy (this one took me awhile to get comfortable with, sometimes it still makes me giggle), cunt (but only in certain situations,  like if he’s fucking me really hard), ass, fuck.
  • Words I’m comfortable using about other people’s bodies are…  balls, dick, cock (my favorite).
  • Words I like others to use about my body are…  cunt, pussy.  Pussy, coming from a man, seems more playful to me, but cunt is primal, harsh.  As mentioned earlier, to me they each have their place in the bedroom, and they may not always be interchangeable.
  • To me, great sex is… overwhelming, inspirational, mind-blowing.  It makes me closer to him, sharing an experience like that.
  • To me, bad sex is…  uncomfortable, awkward, disappointing.

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