Happy Spring Equinox!

And spring is in the air around these parts, even though it’s still a bit chilly. Soon enough though, the summer sun will be here, heating things up.

The first day of spring also marks the beginning of M’s birthday week, so it gives us something more to celebrate than lilac buds and early-morning robins. And while there’s not any threesomes planned like last year, Daddy’s birthday is always an exciting and kinky time around the McConnell house.

Notable Events

I was super excited this week to see that a long time fellow blogger has returned after a hiatus. Rincewind over at Erotixx is a big fan of pinup girls and if you are too, you should be following him. He has a habit of finding lovely ladies and sharing them, and who doesn’t want to be part of that?

rope

If you follow me on Facebook, you may have already these lovely ropes that arrived yesterday. And although I was so very eager to play with them, it just didn’t happen, even though that was our complete intention. Instead, my sexy Sir decided to make me these beautiful spreader bars, and they ended up consuming our night. I think I may be in love with these bad boys. And please don’t mind the hand down my pants.

spreader bars

I also got these in the mail this past week, and again, I’m uber excited. I’ve been reading sex and relationship books since I was 13, and these are the first additions I’ve made in way too long. I’ve also recently revisited The Multi-Orgasmic Man, Mating in Captivity, and Sex for One, which I completely forgot how much I loved. Or maybe me reading it at 35 gives me a different perspective than I had at 20. Do you have any sex books you love? Be sure to tell me in the comments.

IMAG0806

I’m scheduled to finish the first draft on my post-menopausal sex book by the end of the month. That’s means I’m going to be writing about sex even more than normal, which probably means I’m going to have a spike in libido (may the gods help us). A spike in libido means more sex. More sex means more thinking about sex. And history shows that the more I think about sex, the more I want to write about sex.

Anyway, if you have any thoughts, opinions, or perspectives regarding the sexual issues women face as they go through menopause, be sure to hit me up. I’m always interested in what you’re thinking.

What the Fuck Is Fet?

So on a random pursuit, I decided to try and give FetLife another try, but really, I just don’t get it. Maybe it’s because I live in a rural area. Maybe it’s because I don’t officially-in-real-life know any kinksters. Maybe it’s because I don’t know what the real goal of it is. I don’t know, but whatever it is, I can’t seem to get the hang of it.

I know some of my fellow bloggers use Fet to find lifestyle events, but the only things I could see in my area were random hook-up ads. And I continuously found myself chanting “Your kinks are not my kinks. And that’s okay,” and not believing a word of it. **Thank you, Kayla, for putting these words in my head at some point. It reminds me to attempt to have tolerance.**

Anyway, it was a disappointment at best.

Well, that’s all for tonight folks. Still working on that damn Sunday deadline (why oh why do I take weekend work?) and I’ve been distracted by M’s cock all day and I think my opportunity is arising.

*hugsandkisses*

~caitlyn