More Masturbation


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I’m a big fan of masturbation. Truly I am. But I go through these phases where I quit, with no explanation. I don’t know if it’s when I’m having a ton of sex and my libido is matched by what I’m getting. Maybe it’s when I get busy, and there’s not enough time in the day to stop and think, let alone rub one down. But whatever the reason, eventually I’ll realize I haven’t had my hand down my pants in months.

I’m kind of in that spot right now and have been slightly overwhelmed by life. I’ve also gone off my Wellbutrin, which tended to make me a bit hyper-sexual. These things, along with the normal craziness of life, have all contributed to a lower libido, tiredness, and all around blah. Which in turn has lead to no masturbation in quite awhile.

Well, I’ve decided tonight that has to change. I don’t care if I don’t want to get off. I don’t care if M and I just fucked like bunnies. I don’t care if I’m going to be late to work or the kids are fighting in the living room. I am going to masturbate. Every day. At least once.

You may wonder why. Or you may not, but I’m going to tell you anyway, so play along.

I want my sex drive back. I want to want to fuck. Don’t get me wrong, I still do, just not with the vigor I’ve previously had. I want to think about M and his cock and his cock buried inside of me. I want to come home wet and ready. I want to cum hard and I want to cum a lot.

And I know how it works. I know the more I get off, the more I want to get off. The more I cum, the easier it is for me to cum. If I make myself cum daily, I’ll want to fuck daily. It really is a simple equation: how do you want more sex… by having more sex.

And honestly, an increase in masturbation can only help ease my stress. I’ve written about masturbation as stress relief before, and who doesn’t need a little natural stress relief?

So wish me luck on my masturbation venture. My goal is everyday for a month, but I’m going to start with just a week. Everyday, between now and next Friday, my right hand and I have a date. It may only be a 5 minute date, but a date nonetheless.

*hugs and kisses*

21 responses to “More Masturbation

  1. ((HUGS)) I wish I could /lick and /slurp you to help…

  2. Good luck! I am similar in that sometimes I go through spells where I don’t want to at all, and sometimes I am at 5 times a day for months onward… go figure… !

  3. Good luck .. yeah for doing what you need to do for you!

  4. I didn’t start masturbating (God knows why) until I bought a vibrator when I was about 35. That was probably the best purchase I have ever made, coaxing me into my first Big O! At that point, I was starting to think I was frigid or something…mais non! I just needed to find the path! đŸ™‚

    I took Wellbutrin before and it made me manic, and super horny (I’m bipolar) Weird how medications have such different effect on people.

    I love Blister in the Sun!!!


    • I just mentioned the hyper-sexual stuff to a therapist friend of mine, and she got all shitty with me, “I’ve never heard that,” and blew it off when I had concerns that a mutual client was put on it. I wanted to be like, “How about you do some research on it, dumb bitch, and you’ll see it’s true.” But, *sigh*, when he starts fucking everything in sight, she’ll see! haha.

      And so glad you made that purchase dear! Mwah!!

      • Me too! My Pink Best Friend!

        Sometimes I hate the whole medical world…condescending fucks! Then again, I am grateful to them too, they have saved my dimpled ass quite a few times.

        Je t’embrasse,

  5. Hey good luck on your venture. I’m sure you gonna feel great. Your venture sounds kinda exciting and love to join you on your venture and masturbate once everyday if you don’t mind. Anyway I wish you luck and all the pleasure you can get mwah.

    • Didn’t get it in as much as I wanted, but what I was able to do helped. Now that I’m on the up-swing, I probably will be rubbing one down daily! funny how that works, huh? Hope you did better than I did! *hugs and kisses*

  6. Good luck!! I have been there. (I’m on Wellbutrin too… Thank you Wellbutrin for increased sex drive! But what do you do when you stop taking it?) I think this is a great plan to help bring your libido back. Or at least help give it a jump start.

    I might give it a try myself. đŸ˜‰

    • Be prepared, because it will definitely crash when you stop… Not like being on Zoloft or anything, but still a crash. And be prepared to sleep like the fucking dead. I was sleeping like 9 hours a day, and struggled to wake up every morning! But I’ve been off about 2 months, and things are balancing out now, so it’s all good. *hugs and kisses*

  7. Yes. I’m with you. The almond growers out here have a slogan: “A can a week is all we ask.” In my marriage it’s: “1x a week is all we ask”;2x bonk; 1x wank. Simple formula for staying close. Divorce is expensive. Rosie Palm is free. Blessings on your down (there) time. As I get older I need to stay in touch with my arousal cycle. Wanking is a certain path to a big piece of self knowledge, no? We must stay on our game as lovers; or the light will go out. Nasty be the darkness.
    -Dan, proud married wanker

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