Kink of the Week: Panties

So, Jade‘s KOTW hit home with me this week. You see, I love panties. Love, love, love them.

For the longest time, after having babies, I didn’t ever think about my panties. I had gained a ton of weight, lost a lot of self-confidence, and was really just in a bad place. While I didn’t wear “granny panties” per se, I stuck with plain bikini-cut cotton, which were not very flattering on my figure.

But after our move back home in 2011, and kicking myself in gear to get back in shape, along with getting closer with M, that has all changed. Now panties are an integral part of my day. I think about them when I get dressed in the morning, picking a pair out of my two drawers filled with different colors and textures, cloths and styles. I think about how I’ll take the daily *almost daily* picture that I email to M at some point throughout the day. As a matter of fact, all the pictures here are pictures I took for M while at work. Most of them in public restrooms.

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Because that’s one of our rules. One of the only that really stuck, as far as things I must do regularly. He expects one, and there are no excuses if he doesn’t get it. Not only does he enjoy knowing what I’ve go on, giving him something to think about through his day, but it’s service-oriented, as far as our dynamic goes. It’s me, making a specific effort for him, no matter what. It signifies that I am willing to take a few minutes out of my day, no matter how busy or crazy work is, to do something that will please him. Make him smile.

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And christ, M does love panties. It’s one thing that I splurge on that he never complains about. He loves it when I come home with new panties and try them on for him. Absolutely loves it. And even when new ones come, he still has his favorites, one of which is this pair bought almost a year ago, with what looks like polka-dots, but are really little hearts.


And I love to show my panties off to him. Not only in pictures, but in life too. I wear a lot of skirts and dresses, and I have a really bad habit of pulling my skirt up, just enough for him to catch a glimpse of what’s underneath. I make sure to bend down long and slow if there is something that needs picked up off the floor. When we put the kiddos to bed, I make sure to take the steps just the right way, allowing him to have a nice little view. I like to tease him, when we’re out and about, giving little peaks when we are places he can’t do anything about it. I like to let him know when they’re wet or have cum dripping on them from an earlier play time.ย love sex and marriage blog

And he doesn’t only love knowing what I’m wearing and getting pictures and peaks of them. Not at all. He loves to play with me while I’m wearing them. Spank me over them. Pull them tight between my lips and cheeks, reddening my ass with his hand, watching the contrast of my skin against the fabric.ย He likes to make them wet, so wet that my juices soak the fabric, sometimes to the point that they are dripping when I take them off.


He likes to fuck me with them one. Pull them to the side, while he slides his thick cock into my pussy. I imagine it adds an extra sensation, the wet fabric moving against his skin as he thrusts in and out of my cunt, making me cum again and again.

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I have one pair, animal print with red trim *actually wearing them right now* that holds special ย memories for us, and although I can’t speak for M, every time I wear them, I think of one of our first weekends away when we were living with my pops. It was an all night fuck fest, but for most of it, my feet were bound together, wrapped up in these panties, which surprisingly wouldn’t give an inch.wpid-IMG_20130116_131808.jpg

And although we haven’t gone there yet, I can only imagine that at some point in time, M will have me gagged by my own panties, ones that are damp with my juices, covered in my scent, while he holds me down and fucks me, one hand gripped in my hair, while the other is wrapped around my throat.


And what do you do with a pair of panties, once they’ve lived their life and performed their duty? Well, when I have a pair of panties that have ripped or gotten a hole in them or something, I make sure to mention it to M. And then later on that night, when he has me panting with want, those same panties end up being ripped from my body in shreds.

Don’t forget to swing over to Kink of the Week and see what everyone else has to say about panties!

*hugs and kisses* y’all!


14 responses to “Kink of the Week: Panties

  1. Lingerie is a beautiful thing! Most of all, when worn by an attractive and very sexy woman who makes a man feel hotly aroused, when his gaze takes in all of her body, in her panties and bra. I could relate to almost every everything you wrote here about panties, and especially what to do with panties that are worn out, which is an intense turn on for me, when I do it with my wife.

    I love watching my wife put on her panties, thigh high stockings, heels and bra, almost as much as I love watching her take her lingerie off. Which is why I go with her to help her select new lingerie, often buying her 5 pairs of our favorite selections at a time, and we both know that the money is well spent.

    Later that evening, she puts on a private modeling show for me, usually in our living room in front of a fire burning hot and bright in the fireplace, the room lit only by the light of the fire and some candles. The show begins with her stripping for me as I watch her, stripping off all the clothes she put on that morning, until she is stark naked. Then as I continue to watch her, she puts on a new pair of lingerie from her new selection, and models them for me while wearing her high heels and walking around the room, frequently stopping and posing in ways that she knows I enjoy seeing her pose for me.

    She continues modeling until either I get up to strip her naked, or I order her to strip naked for me. While she is naked, we enjoy one or more of a variety of different sexual activities together. Then she puts on the next pair, and the process is repeated (with variations) until all 5 new pairs of lingerie have been put on, modeled and stripped off.

    It’s a wonderful way to spend an evening, and both she and I never get tired of sharing the experience, no matter how many modeling shows we have enjoyed together in the past.

    Thanks for your descriptive and well written post, LSAM. As I think you can see, it inspired lots of my own passionate memories, and also a desire to have my wife perform a new modeling show for me tomorrow night. The weather is rainy and unseasonably cold here on this long weekend, and a fire in our fireplace, along with all that goes with it, seems like just what we need. ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Shit, fuck, damn Mark! Sounds like a fan-fucking-tastic way to spend an evening if you ask me! Enjoy your long weekend in front of the fireplace. Makes me miss mine! xoxo

      • It’s been a great way for us to spend an evening for a while now. But it wasn’t until I read your post here that I realized it’s been longer than usual since our last evening modeling show. With weather that felt more like early March than late May, I felt inspired to take my wife lingerie shopping, which made her very happy. Then later, I got a fire burning in the fire place, and we both got the fires of our passion for each other burning very hot, with an evening modeling show that was overdue for us.

        The only thing good about a longer than usual amount of time since our last lingerie modeling show, was that it increased the chances of there being some worn out panties in my wife’s drawer, and there were! Which were used to our advantage in the same way that you wrote about, earlier this evening. (smiling as I think about it)

        So I’m giving you some major credit here for inspiring me to think of the ideal solution for a very cold and rainy holiday weekend, that made both my wife and I very happy yesterday and even more so, last night, and then again, in a different and very exciting way tonight… Thanks LSAM! ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. Panties are a vice of mine as well. Nothing makes me feel sexier. ๐Ÿ™‚

    • I love them. Makes me sad that I got away from paying attention to them for so many damn years, but I can promise, it will never happen again. *Cheers* to one panty lover to another! xoxo

  3. I like to go panty shopping with her help pick them out.

  4. Ripping off damaged panties sounds like a very fun way to get rid of them – shall have to mention that to Daddy. Your service in sending him photos of what you’re wearing is awesome too ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Welcome, subrei! And it is a VERY fun way to get rid of them. At least they go out with an experience to remember! And the pictures, it works for us, keeps us focused on each other. I bet it’s been close to a year now, since we’ve started it. *hugs and kisses* and thanks for visiting!

  5. You should definitely submit some pics to Doug over at:

  6. I love buying new panties about as much as I love buying corsets. Really need to find someone to show them all off to. Great selection you’ve shown here. ๐Ÿ™‚

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