So, as I’m attempting to build my online presence, I’ve been spending a lot of time on social media *read: procrastinating and not working*. And through this, I randomly have random conversations with random people.

And one kid *he’s old enough to drink, but young enough for me to call him a kid* has on two different occasions said something along the lines of “I bet you fuck like a porn star.”

I roll my eyes. haha. Kids.

And then a few days later, M and I were in bed 69ing and I caught a glimpse of us in the headboard mirror, and I was suddenly like, “Damn, maybe we do fuck like porn stars.”

And then a few days later, these arrived on the front porch.

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And the fact that M records at least 50 percent of our fucking….

So… Um. Yeah. I guess we do fuck like porn stars.

And to help you get your dirty on too, I’m going to share a few hints that take your bedroom playtime from PG to XXX.

Caitlyn on How to Fuck like a Porn Star

First things first, if you really want to fuck like you mean it, then you need to be comfortable with sex, your body, your partner’s body, and all of the ways in which they experience each other. If that’s not where you’re at, then back up and figure out how to get there. To be able to embrace sex and enjoy it without regards, you have to be okay with it and not held back by social stigmas, guilt for enjoying it, or worry about the dimples on your thighs.

If you’re there and ready to get it on like Donkey Kong, then let’s get this party started.

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Fuck with Confidence

More than just being comfortable in the skin you’re in, if you want to fuck like a porn star, you need to do it with confidence. Like you know how to rock that cock and that you’re going to do it better than any other chick on Earth can do it. And then you do it.

You’ve also got to have confidence in your sexual appeal. You have to understand that the person fucking you wants to fuck and thinks you’re hot as hell. You can’t be afraid of what your body looks like with the lights on if you want to fuck. Sure, you can make love under the covers in the dark, but that’s not how porn stars fuck and it’s not how you should either.

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Fuck Because You Love It

The easiest way to look like you’re enjoying sex is to enjoy sex. And not just the getting off part. No, you’ve got to love fucking from the first heated glance across the table to the afterglow once you’re sweated and stated. Love touching him. Love being touched. Love riding his cock just for the way he watches your breasts bounce on your chest. Love sucking his cock because of his growl when you gag on it.

When he sees you just going through the motions, it’s defeating. While he may take the blow job you offer just because his dick hasn’t seen spit in six months, he’s not going to enjoy it nearly as much as he would when you’re bobbing up and down with abandoned, drooling all over it, moaning because just the feel of it in your mouth is amazing.

See, when you’re passionate about passion, things get hot. They steam. And it’s addictive. When a lover sees you aroused simply because of arousal, sees you getting off on him getting off, well, let’s just say it takes fucking to a whole new level.

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Make Him Feel like a Rock Star

When a girl in a porn gets fucked, she gets off. She screams. She yells. And the man she’s fucking knows beyond a doubt that he’s made her feel good. That’s exactly what you need to do, make sure that he understands how damn good it feels and that you love it more than anything else. No you don’t have to scream, but if you must, please do. You can simply tell him, “Baby, that feels so good.” Or even be more specific, “God, I love how your thick cock fills my pussy.” And cum. Cum. Cum. Cum. Cum all over him until you can’t cum any more. Nothing makes a man feel more like a king than being covered in a beautiful lady’s cum that he created.

Be.Leive.Me.

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Ditch Your Inhibitions

To be able to fuck like a porn star, you need to let go of your inhibitions. Instead of thinking about sex as a five to seven minute ride of penis and vagina bumping, think about sex as an exploration and experimentation. Embrace what you don’t know and try everything you ever thought about. And yes, you’ll mess up, and yes, you may fall out of bed, but you know what? You’ll have fun. You’ll laugh. And then the fucking gets even better.

If your partner wants to explore unknown territories, be receptive to that. Hell, what would life be like if you’d never been introduced to cheesecake? It wouldn’t be bad necessarily, but it’s better with cheesecake right? Well, there’s areas of sex that are just like that. You never knew you wanted it until you experienced it. And then once you know, you wonder how you ever lived without it.

Do You Fuck like a Porn Star?

Do you fuck like you mean it? Enjoy every moment and every aspect of fucking your partner? Share your words of advice in the comments, and help the rest of the world have sex that will make their jaws hit the ground.