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Forced Orgasms

Oh. My. Fucking. God.

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Exxxotica 2009 . Day 2 486 (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I never thought I’d be into forced orgasms; hell, I cum all the time as it is, why force it? Well… after last night, I have become enlightened.

Sir and I were in bed, and we’d played, and we’d fucked, and we were playing some more. I’d already cum literally about 20 times and soaked two different areas of our bed. M took a break and went downstairs to the bathroom. Alone in our room, I reached over and picked up my Wand and my Cush. I know he loves to watch me masturbate, so I thought I’d be ready for him when he returned.

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I Want to be Beat

Last spring, in what was a different WordPress world, at least for me, I got chastised for commenting something like “A Daddy Dom will beat the shit out of you, then comfort you in his arms as you cry.” I apparently offended a fellow blogger with my language and I, of course the ever civil LSAM, publicly apologized, modified my lexicon and explained my meaning.

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A Guide to Fisting

Amazingly, I looked around, and there isn’t much real information out there on fisting. And even on sites like youporn and xhamster, many of the videos are either anal fisting (ouch!) or girl-girl scenes. And let me tell you, my fist is not half the size of M’s, so there is no fucking comparison to having a girl fist you and having a full grown 6’4″ man fist you. No comparison.

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Daddy’s toy

Most of you probably know that in my dynamic, M is the Sir (often times “Sir Daddy”) and I am the toy. And yes, these are our pet names for one another, but to me, as the toy, the word runs deep. When he calls me by it, I melt. Truly. I swear to the gods it probably lowers my blood pressure and wets my panties when the word leaves his lips.

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Everybody Fights

Every couple fights; no matter how much love there is, no matter how much sex, no matter how

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Bondage collar (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

much communication. M and I, well, we don’t fight too often. A minor disagreement here or there, but over all, we rarely fight. And I never go to bed angry. Until last week. And why that night? Who the fuck knows: pride exhaustion, frustration, idk…

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Submissive’s Guide to Giving Head

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submissive_sign (Photo credit: CapesTreasures.com)

Okay, okay. So that was kind of misleading. Well, sort of. See, I did write a Submissive’s Guide to Giving Head over the weekend, but I just didn’t publish it here, I did it over at Eden. It seems I have a minor obsession with this place.

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In Response to Mr. X

A few weeks ago, I received a blog comment from Mr. X from The Male POV. The post was discussing my obligations as a sub to M and Mr. X responded as follows:

The psychology involved in this kind of relationship may not be helpful in the long term. For example, it feels like M is making up for something he feels he lacks (Masculinity, Power, Purpose, Regret, Anger etc.) by being the Dom. Whilst on the other hand, you feeling guilt and will sacrifice any power you may once have had to make up for this feeling of guilt, regrets or mistakes that may have occurred. Imagination is so powerful, the sub-concious mind does not know what is real and unreal.

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Rules and Obligations: Part 2 or What My Sir Does For Me

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Bondage (Photo credit: redspotted)

Miss Jayne Ayres commented on my last post, which detailed some of the rules of my submission, asking what M’s obligations are to me and what rules He upholds in our dynamic. I must admit, the question had me intrigued, as I’d never truly thought about it.

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Rules and Obligations

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As many of you may know, over the past four to five months, M has become my Sir. And while I’ve shared many of the ups and downs of us embracing our dynamic, as well as some of the fantastic sex, I haven’t really touched on any of the behind the scene things.

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The Desire to Please

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So…  There is so much I would like to say that I can’t seem to verbalize.  I have feelings of elation and love, yet heartache, but I sit here with my fingers on the keyboard and they refuse to move.  So… I’m going to do what I do best, and turn it straight to sex…

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Sub-Space in Relation to Drug Use…

So, keep in mind as you read this, that I have no idea how true any of it is.  I am very educated in drug use and addiction (from textbooks, professional trainings, and straws and mirrors), so that stuff is all legit, but the other, well, someday soon I’ll research it, but just don’t have the time tonight and this was on my mind.  Deal with it.  Or don’t.

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From Psychology Today: A Loving Introduction to BDSM

Good morning, ya’ll, and Happy Father’s Day to all you dad’s out there.  I came across this article in Psychology Today, and thought I’d pass it on.  It’s nothing new, to those of you that practice or have researched BDSM, but it’s just nice to know that there is some real information being put out there by professionals that don’t make us out to be sick little perverts…  Opps… wait a sec…  Maybe we are all litte perverts!  Hehe.  You know what I mean.  *hugs and kisses* everyone.  Enjoy your day!~LSAM

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Exhibitionism: Getting Off on Getting Seen

Nude in public. Exhibitionism.

Nude in public. Exhibitionism. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

In a reflection of a recent string on comments and a test thinging I took awhile ago, I think I’m just now coming to terms with having a bit more exhibitionist in me than I previously believed.  And I’m not talking about the “clinical”definition of an exhibitionist…  I wouldn’t say that I have a compulsion to show myself to others, but I do kind of like the thought of being seen.  Hmmm….  maybe it’s not the getting seen that gets me going, maybe it’s the idea of getting caught.  I have been caught, by our kids way too much, and by the cops once.  It sucks.  You’re in the middle of some hot, steamy sex, my luck just about ready to squirt all over everything, and then there is a sudden, jarring stop to the pounding that was just going on.  But, fuck, the idea of it…  Yes, I definitely like that.

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Unexpected Benefits of a D/s Relationship

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Image of S/M sexuality (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Over the weekend, I was doing some back reading, still catching up on blog posts that I haven’t had time to get to.  I was over at Leather Cuffs and Silken Bonds and reading this post by Jake, and it got me thinking.  I’ve talked about this briefly, here and there, since the big blow out with M occurred over six weeks ago, but I don’t think I’ve really discussed it in detail, or really explained what I meant by it.

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Fundamentals of Nipple Torture

Okay, so a little bit ago, I ran this post where I asked you, dear readers and kinky pervs, what you wanted to know about.  And basically, most of you brats gave me nothing (don’t worry, I still love you all!), but Gillian, bless her sexual soul, requested more information about nipple torture.  So it’s taken me a bit, and I’ve experimented myself with some things, and, alas, here we go, with a new post of the wonders of nipple torture!!

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