A Difference of Opinion: Female Body Types

So if you’ve been keeping up, you’d know that I want a girlfriend. And I’ve been browsing around on aff (actually may even have a first date this Saturday), and I’m finding it a completely different experience than when I was looking for a third.

I’m not looking for just a fuck, so on one hand I’m just as interested in what someone likes to do, the things she does for fun, etc. But what I’ve found most interesting is that I’m looking at different girls than I  was the last time.

I was somewhat surprised to see I was drawn to looking at girls who are more curvy, with a little more meat on their bones. Not obese, not even close, but apparently I like girls who are soft rather than boney.

And don’t get me wrong… All you skinny bitches out there, you’re sexy as hell, don’t misunderstand me. But my attraction seems to fall a little higher on the weight scale.

And I started to think back, back to a time when I regularly buried my head between girls’ legs, and my past preferences  prove this. The one “girlfriend” I’ve had, back then she wasn’t fat, but she was never thin, more big boned. And the other girls who ended up in my bed, or in my fantasies for that matter, they weren’t skinny girls either, although they all had flat stomachs and good proportions.

And this has struck up an odd conversation between M and myself. When he first saw the pic of the girl I’m hoping to go out with this weekend, he was like, “But she’s thick.”



Hmmm…. Why? Because girls with curves are sexy. They are soft and hippy and I can curl up next to them. Because I want to run my hands down their sides and feel the flare of their ribs, waist and hips. Because when I wrap my arms around her, I don’t want to feel like I could break her in two.

And I’m not (currently) a skinny girl. I’m still struggling to get there (damn baby weight). But I have a body type that’s meant to be skinny. I’m not curvy. I’ve got a tiny ass and small hips. Even at my fittest, pre-munchkins, when I was running miles every day, swimming every evening and lifting weights more days than not, my waist was not truly defined. Even though my hip bones stuck out and my ribs were slightly visible, I didn’t really have curves, more like angles.

So on this Wednesday morning, I’m still coming to terms with this. With wanting something different than my Sir. With looking for what I want, what I’m attracted to, regardless what people think.

Have a good hump day, y’all. Half way to the weekend! *hugs and kisses*

39 responses to “A Difference of Opinion: Female Body Types

  1. *raises hand to volunteer*

  2. Curvy is sexy.

  3. Curvy is sexy. I personally don’t find model types attractive because more often than not, they remind me of 12 year old boys. Flat on both sides. Females with bodies like Marilyn Monroe, Anna Nicole Smith (during her GUESS modeling), Tyra Banks, etc, are sexy.
    I’m not curvy. I have an athletic build. But I do wish I had a bit of a booty. I’m all boobs.

    • Completely agree with you on the 12 year old boy thing, Kitty. And I too am all boobs with no butt! *sigh* I once went a mission and did 100 squats a day and it didn’t do shit for my ass. I was pissed!! Oh, well, apparently there’s not much I can do about it! *hugs and kisses*

      • Butt padding! LOL. Squats are great for those who have an ass. But I wouldn’t trade my boobs for an ass. I love my boobs. They get me discounts and freebies and drinks all the time.

        • I think you can even get butt implants! But you’re right about boobs. I would love a plump ass, but I’m kinda attached to my boobs, even though they sometimes fuck up my golf swing. Free drinks are nice. And I once had a cop tell me that if I’d unbutton my shirt just a little low when I got pulled over, I’d probably be left off with just a warning! haha That was AFTER he had bought me a few drinks!

          • You can get butt implants and fat injections. It’s a pain afterwards because you will need that special cushion for going to the bathroom because you literally can’t sit on your ass afterwards.
            I appreciate breasts more than ass. It’s part of what makes a woman feminine. At least to me it does. It’s what I find attractive in a woman. As well as lips.

          • I’m a big fan of lips, especially on girls (*Hi Fatal, love those lips!*). Kissing girls is one of my favorite things, it’s so different than kissing a man… *sigh*

          • I think both of us are now reminiscing.

  4. If you need me, call me, baby I’ll be there… *chuckle*


  5. *Does a little fist pump for the curvy girls*

    Thank you for making me feel sexy because I have curves not in spite of them. Xoxo

  6. Curvy girls are damn sexy!
    I’ve become skinnier since having kids – no time to sit down anymore I think… but you might like my ass ; )

  7. I know how you feel.

  8. Well now I’m really glad I licked you. Definitely on the curvy/soft end of the spectrum. 😉

  9. Do you think this might have something to do with your own sense of your gender? I mean, if you want to be the one wearing the cock, it’s not suuuuuper surprising that that fantasy might go along with finding someone who is, in a relative sense, more buxom and/or bodacious than you are.

    No judgment there; I fall into this particular category myself. Holly has what can only be described as a pinup-model figure. Which I adore. Voraciously.

    • Hmmm… Something to think about. And I definitely do want to wear a cock. And while I’ve got boobs like crazy, that’s about it! haha. I’m going to have to ponder this one a little bit, but I think you might be onto something here… *hugs and kisses*

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  11. I find myself attracted to confident girls: big, small, overweight or underweight, it hasn’t seemed to make a difference. Weird.

    Also, I’d be happy to let you cuddle up to me any day! I’m a big fan of your tits! Well, and of you, of course!! xx Hy

    • Confident girls are the best; 100% with you on that one! And if you’re ever travelling my direction, babe, there will always be room in my bed for you! *hugs and kisses*

      and ps I’m glad you like my tits. I like yours too!

  12. I’d consider myself the skinny-(bitch)-side, and if I was looking for a girl-friend, I’d probably like her to be curvy as well. I don’t think skinny on skinny turns me on the same as skinny on curvy.

    • With skinny-on-skinny, you’re always banging hip bones or something! And whichever side you fall on Z, it’s the sexy side! The pics you put up the other day were damn fine!! *hugs and kisses*

  13. Loved reaading the comments almost as much as tie post. 🙂
    Yes curvy is nice… Very nice.

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